Love on the inside® 

Loti

Loti

My purpose has always been to answer the call and hear her voice, find the path home, and bring back what I discovered to help others find their own way.

To embrace the shadows, discover the light, ignite my soul discover the truth, joy and peace in my life.

Love on the Inside (LOTI) (Low-tie)* is a place to reconnect with the wisdom that already exists within you.

We have the map. Together, we can discover your key, opening the door to the place where you truly belong.

I have been helping woman for over 25 years to answer the call, find their power, and magic, helping them to empower those around them.


















     BE the person you were born to be!! live a life from the inside out

You know you were not born to struggle.
You know there is a deeper meaning and connection to life. 
You know you want to feel alive and vibrant!

You want to know who you are at your very core, and to feel comfortable in your own skin.

You want to feel beautiful in your own skin and love yourself from the inside out.

You want to feel the wisdom, clarity, joy, peace and purpose, that comes from within. 

 But how do you find the path to get there and how do you navigate the journey?

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You Know there is more to life

 

And you are right, there is 

“It is not the strongest of the species that survives,
nor the most intelligent that survives.
It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.”


“It is not the strongest of the species that survives,
nor the most intelligent that survives.
It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.”


Charles Darwin 

Charles Darwin 

     BE the person you were born to be!! live a life from the inside out

Hi I'm Shaorn 

Creative arts therapist, Transformation Coach, Soul Alignment guide, author and Creator of Love on the Inside

Loti resides in us all. there to quietly support us. Not in criticism or judgement, but with wisdom and strength, to  help us stand tall  

I have spent 25 years helping women and children find their 'self.'
My journey started many years ago, when I realised I was not at the centre of my life. I was exhausted and didn't know how to find my 'self'.  Where I  could create a life that felt meaningful and full of joy.  
I had a loving family, a home and a life that looked good on the outside, but I was not on the inside.  

The knowledge and wisdom I have gained over the years to help women is something I value. To help women that feel stuck, lost, or unable to create relationships, lives and businesses where they are able to lead soulful lives, feels amazing and I feel privledged to have met and helped so many women. 

At my centre I am hugely creative. Creativity and sustainability are at my roots. You will always finds me discovering beautiful pieces at the carboot, painting, or sewing something or other. But awareness and growth are also a large passion of my life. 

There was a time in my life that the creativity took a back seat , while the passion for awareness and helping others grew

But I soon realised I could not live without my creativity. It is how I grow and feel alive.  


Through the Create workshops I bring creativity and wellness together, so you can create a life with you in it. 


I help women create  lives where there is freedom, wisdom and joy,

 So many women have so much wisdom and yet it seems out of reach. I help women get back their time, find their soul and purpose, understanding what matters to them. I help them create lives, where they no longer abandon themselves.  This affects those around them, making energy shifts to uplift  those in her life. 

Being at the centre of Loti, is at the heart of who I am. I have been a daughter, girlfriend, friend, wife, a mother, a business woman, a creative arts psychotherapist,  offering creative transformation sessions. A play therapist, A reiki practitioner, a transformation coach, spiritual guide and mentor, and many things, but those titles do not define me.
During my journey and awakening I found my soul's purpose and helped many women do the same, instead of abandoning themselves.  

Who I am at the heart of those roles is what defines me. Letting go of the roles we play that do not serve us in our relationships and careers can sometimes be the hardest thing we can do, but it can bring you the greatest amount of peace. Finding yourself and who you are underneath all the roles and life experiences is what is at the centre of everything you do. Being comes before doing. 

I have walked a life of may experiences, separation both from myself and others, loss, trauma, but more importantly I know what it is like to feel exhaustion, disempowered and not be in the driver seat of your own life. 

I support you to find your truth, your true identity, guiding you to show up in your life with authenticity, embracing your difference, so you can experience peace, and clarity and feel comfortable in your own skin, from the inside out.




I have spent 25 years helping women and children find their 'self.'
My journey started many years ago, when I realised I was not at the centre of my life. I was exhausted and didn't know how to find my 'self'. Where I could create a life that felt meaningful and full of joy.  
I had a loving family, a home and a life that looked good on the outside, but I was not on the inside.  

The knowledge and wisdom I have gained over the years to help women is something I value. To help women that feel stuck, lost, or unable to create relationships, lives and businesses where they are able to lead soulful lives, feels amazing and I feel privledged to have met and helped so many women. 

At my centre I am hugely creative. Creativity and sustainability are at my roots. You will always finds me discovering beautigful pieces at the carboot, painting, or sewing something or other. But awareness and growth are also a large passion of my life. 

There was a time in my life that the creativity took a back seat , while the passion for awareness and helping others grew

But I soon realised I could not live without my creativity. It is how I grow and feel alive.  


Through the Create workshops I bring creativity and wellness together, so you can create a life with you in it. 


I help women create lives where there is freedom, wisdom and joy,

 So many women have so much wisdom and yet it seems out of reach. I help women get back their time, find their soul and purpose, understanding what matters to them. I help them create lives, where they no longer abandon themselves. This affects those around them, making energy shifts to uplift those in her life. 

Being at the centre of Loti, is at the heart of who I am. I have been a daughter, girlfriend, friend, wife, a mother, a business woman, a creative arts psychotherapist, offering creative transformation sessions. A play therapist, A reiki practitioner, a transformation coach, spiritual guide and mentor, and many things, but those titles do not define me.
During my journey and awakening I found my soul's purpose and helped many women do the same, instead of abandoning themselves.  

Who I am at the heart of those roles is what defines me. Letting go of the roles we play that do not serve us in our relationships and careers can sometimes be the hardest thing we can do, but it can bring you the greatest amount of peace. Finding yourself and who you are underneath all the roles and life experiences is what is at the centre of everything you do. Being comes before doing. 

I have walked a life of may experiences, separation both from myself and others, loss, trauma, but more importantly I know what it is like to feel exhaustion, disempowered and not be in the driver seat of your own life. 

I support you to find your truth, your true identity, guiding you to show up in your life with authenticity, embracing your difference, so you can experience peace, and clarity and feel comfortable in your own skin, from the inside out.




 LOTI *(Low-tie) - Love on the inside is not perfection, but we believe that every woman, regardless of her age, holds an incredible, untamed power within her. An energy that allows her to connect to her divine feminine energy, allowing her to trust her inner wisdom, and intuition creating a life that radiates confidence, clarity, joy and passion. Allowing her to create a system that works for her, not against her. A system that she creates to work on a deep soul cellular level, continually nourishing her body and soul. So that she will stop second-guessing herself, know what feels right for her without needing constant reassurance. She will feel calmer in her decisions, instead of overwhelmed or stuck. and she will start choosing from a place that actually feels good… not from pressure, fear, or habit. She will feel comfortable in her own skin, and that will make her feel beautiful and help her thrive.

LOTI is all about helping women find this energy within, so she can create the most amazing things, from children, to connections, relationships, to businesses, creativity, lives, and health, creating a unique space where she can just be her amazing self! Whoever she chooses to be, knowing that she does not arrive to her unique space with perfection. She embraces her perfect imperfections, learning to trust herself, finding her vitality and magic. 

 LOTI *(Low-tie) - Love on the inside is not perfection, but we believe that every woman, regardless of her age, holds an incredible, untamed power within her. An energy that allows her to connect to her divine feminine energy, allowing her to trust her inner wisdom, and intuition creating a life that radiates confidence, clarity, joy and passion. Allowing her to create a system that works for her, not against her. A system that she creates to work on a deep soul cellular level, continually nourishing her body and soul. So that she will stop second-guessing herself, know what feels right for her without needing constant reassurance. She will feel calmer in her decisions, instead of overwhelmed or stuck. and she will start choosing from a place that actually feels good… not from pressure, fear, or habit. She will feel comfortable in her own skin, and that will make her feel beautiful and help her thrive.

LOTI is all about helping women find this energy within, so she can create the most amazing things, from children, to connections, relationships, to businesses, creativity, lives, and health, creating a unique space where she can just be her amazing self! Whoever she chooses to be, knowing that she does not arrive to her unique space with perfection. She embraces her perfect imperfections, learning to trust herself, finding her vitality and magic. 

What we Believe in 

Loti resides in us all. there to quietly support us. Not in criticism or judgement, but with wisdom and strength, to  help us stand tall  

Loti resides in us all. there to quietly support us. Not in criticism or judgement, but with wisdom and strength, to  help us stand tall  

For those that know me, I am rarely without a good cup of Cocao... I love hot chocolate!! warm knitted blankets, oils, anything aromatherapy, sunshine and a good lip balm. I love travelling and singing and dancing, No particular order or style, just singing my heart out and dancing in the kitchen or anywhere to be fair. I love playing games and tennis.  I love a good book or film, baths, and I love great smells,  journalling, writing and one of  my most favourite things of all, sharing a good cuppa with friends,  And did I mention FOOD. I LOVE FOOD!!! A good place to eat, home, a restaurant, a lovely new place on your travels. That's where I find home, good food, lovely company and family, a warm environment  full of love, fun, games and joy.  

For those that know me, I am rarely without a good cup of Cocao... I love hot chocolate!! warm knitted blankets, oils, anything aromatherapy, sunshine and a good lip balm. I love travelling and singing and dancing, No particular order or style, just singing my heart out and dancing in the kitchen or anywhere to be fair. I love playing games and tennis.  I love a good book or film, baths, and I love great smells,  journalling, writing and one of  my most favourite things of all, sharing a good cuppa with friends,  And did I mention FOOD. I LOVE FOOD!!! A good place to eat, home, a restaurant, a lovely new place on your travels. That's where I find home, good food, lovely company and family, a warm environment  full of love, fun, games and joy.  

Being in nature and walking is what my soul requires on a regular basis and spending time with family and those that matter in my life, especially my children and granddogs.  I love flowers, water, swimming, preferably the sea, exploring, hiking, getting messy, synchronicities, and magic. I love crystals, reiki, and all things that connect with the higher self. I love travelling and exploring and meeting new people, and learning about new cultures. I simply love learning. 

Being in nature and walking is what my soul requires on a regular basis and spending time with family and  those that matter in my life, especially my children and granddogs.  I love flowers, water, swimming, preferably the sea, exploring, hiking, getting messy, synchronicities, and magic. I love crystals, reiki, and all things that connect with the higher self. I love travelling and exploring and meeting new people, and learning about new cultures. I simply love learning. 

Connecting with love

Connecting with love

Painting, creativity, sewing and all things sustainable   are my outlet and passion. Creating from my soul is what lights me up because I love the transformation that takes place within your soul. I have painted since I was a child, and love the feeling it brings, but painting in  alignment is pure magic.  You never know where it will go, or how it will feel, or what it will teach you or the magic it brings. Being able to directly speak to your soul  is pure divine magic. 


Painting, creativity, sewing and all things sustainable are my outlet and passion. Creating from my soul is what lights me up because I love the transformation that takes place within your soul. I have painted since I was a child, and love the feeling it brings, but painting in alignment is pure magic. You never know where it will go, or how it will feel, or what it will teach you or the magic it brings. Being able to directly speak to your soul is pure divine magic. 

being curiously creative

being curiously creative

MY favorite things

Loti Facts 

Grateful for being able to show up and experience the journey with such amazing, courageous and wonderful souls

The special and brave souls I have met along the journey.

MY HAPPY PLACE

every day

Lost count

never

Never forget where I started, where I came from and how it felt. I will never forgot to be grateful.  

My Happy place

We know you want to feel energised, full of clarity and vitality and able to embrace your inner you so you can align and manifest the life you deserve.



For all alignment work I am a member of PTUK & BACP. I abide by BACP/PTUK ethical principles and I am fully insured. I also abide by the Spiritual Law

"Inner beauty cannot be copied. It has to be discovered" 

Feeling alive in your own skin, starts
 with Love on the inside.  

Feeling alive in your own skin, starts
 with Love on the inside.  

Who is Loti? 

come on in 

come on in 

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Yellowstone

fav tv show

Life is what you make it.

CATCH PHRASE

Can solve a Rubik's cube in less than 2 minutes.

Hidden Talent

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PODCAST MANAGER

Team Member

Law in Order; SVU

fav tv show

Go big or go home.

CATCH PHRASE

Can guess anyone's age within 1 year.

Hidden Talent

8 Wing 7

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Law in Order; SVU

fav tv show

Go big or go home.

CATCH PHRASE

Can guess anyone's age within 1 year.

Hidden Talent

8 Wing 7

Enneagram

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Forget where i started and how it felt to step onto the path home. 

NEVER

The Special and brave People i have met along my journey

Lost count 

EVery day, grateful for being able to show up and experience the journey with wonderful people around me

Every day

LOTI  facts

Somatic soul alignment is a gentle, integrative process that brings the body, mind, and inner self back into harmony by working beneath surface thoughts and into the felt experience of the body. Rooted in principles of Somatic Therapy and supported by elements of Energy Healing, it helps individuals release stored tension, emotional patterns, and inherited roles that keep them disconnected from their true essence. Rather than focusing on fixing or analysing, it creates a safe, attuned space where the body can soften, awareness can deepen, and a more authentic, intuitive way of being can emerge—allowing a person to feel grounded, aligned, and guided from within.

Somatic soul alignment is a gentle, integrative process that brings the body, mind, and inner self back into harmony by working beneath surface thoughts and into the felt experience of the body. Rooted in principles of Somatic Therapy and supported by elements of Energy Healing, it helps individuals release stored tension, emotional patterns, and inherited roles that keep them disconnected from their true essence. Rather than focusing on fixing or analysing, it creates a safe, attuned space where the body can soften, awareness can deepen, and a more authentic, intuitive way of being can emerge—allowing a person to feel grounded, aligned, and guided from within.

Somatic Soul     Alignment 

Look within 

Look within 

Step into love on the inside 

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Joy never truly leaves you. She is always there, beneath the responsibilities, expectations and busyness of life. Sometimes we simply become too busy to notice her.

She waits patiently for us to return, to create, to move, to laugh, to connect and to remember the simple joy of being ourselves.

Joy never truly leaves you. She is always there, beneath the responsibilities, expectations and busyness of life. Sometimes we simply become too busy to notice her.

She waits patiently for us to return, to create, to move, to laugh, to connect and to remember the simple joy of being ourselves.

Joy